After you join to free dating sites like luvfree.com, okcupid.com, mingle2.com or other, you may start chatting. Chatting with guys is not so easy, especially if you met recently. You should interest the guy he’s unlikely to keep up the conversation and the latest fashion trends for several hours in a row, unless gossip about Ben’s divorce from Jennifer Garner. You should not get carried away during your conversation with your biography, it’s better to learn more about the guy, but don’t overdo it you’re not under interrogation. Abstract topics will help you feel less shy, get used to each other and find common interests. Examples of topics for conversation include:
- Relations. At the beginning of the conversation, you can ask the guy about what type of girls he likes. If you are already dating, you can discuss your future plans maybe you can go somewhere for a weekend or a joint vacation. Ask what doesn’t suit him in you, what does he expect from the relationship and what he definitely won’t tolerate, discuss joint problems. When talking about relationships, don’t mention your ex-boyfriends, don’t make huge plans for the future, and don’t scare him with joint children (unless, of course, you are preparing for the wedding). Do not insist if the guy does not want to talk about relationships. Relationships is most popular theme on dating sites.
- Cinema. Modern cinema is rich in interesting films. You can discuss the latest movie news, the next series of «Game of Thrones», the latest release of some interesting television shows or exchange preferences in the cinema. And even better, not just discuss, but arrange a joint viewing.
- Hobby. Ask a person about his hobbies. Maybe he likes to play soccer or tennis, loves hunting or fishing, goes to the gym, does sports dancing, plays the guitar or volunteers in a pet shelter. You do not have to be a fan of a particular sports club and understand jokes; it is enough to show interest in his hobbies. Be sure to tell about your hobby. Dating site luvfree.com has a filter to immediately find people with the same interests.
- Work or study. Ask who he works for or what specialty he is studying in. As you talk, you can develop a topic; ask interesting questions related to its activities. You can ask how his day went by taking care.
- Weather. What else to talk about during a walk, if not about the weather. The topic, of course, is not long, but when there’s nothing to talk about at all talking about clouds, rain, the sun, rainbow, birds and flowers will be just right.
These rules apply only to those cases when you are pleased to communicate with a guy and you like him, if some troll or impartial young man “attacked” you, feel free to send them off or put to block list on dating site.