The phrase I have nothing to wear is common enough, but wedding season can bring it to a whole new level. It seems there’s at least one ceremony every weekend, so you need creative looks that still make you feel like the best version of yourself.
The key is to focus on quality over quantity, investing in timeless pieces that can be dressed up or down depending on the occasion. Trendy accessories, floaty gowns, and maxis each have their place. Let the vibe of the wedding guide your look. Here are a few ideas to get you started:
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Occasion 1: Formal Summer Wedding
Formal weddings are a little more prescriptive about dress codes. If the invitation notes black tie, you can’t go wrong with a long dress. Consider a floor-length gown that does not reveal the ankles in sumptuous fabrics like chiffon, georgette or silk. For a modern twist, opt for unexpected colors like deep sapphire blue or emerald green.
It might be OK to sport a cute playsuit. Keep it chic by picking a tailored piece with statement earrings, heels, and an elegant clutch.
For optional black-tie invitations, a modern midi or high-low hemline is a great choice. They can be pencil-types, full skirts, or even wrap dresses. Details like off-the-shoulder necklines or intricate beading can take a basic midi to the next level. But be sure to consult with the marrying couple if you’re unsure what the black tie optional dress code means to them.
Occasion 2: Beach Summer Wedding
Beach weddings are all about relaxed elegance. A common go-to look is to accessorize with a woven bag, sandals, and an oversized sun hat while wearing a maxi dress for an effortless and glamorous style.
Flowy skirts in shades like teal and soft pink are perfect. Team them up with an off-the-shoulder top and sandals to complete the look. For a more modern take, try an A-line dress in bright yellow or pastel blue.
If you want to feel more unconventional and free-spirited like the ocean, a bohemian-inspired look is the best option. A long peasant dress with a plunging V-neckline and puff sleeves will be perfect for this event. Add some ethnic jewelry for an added touch of glam.
Occasion 3: Cocktail and Semi-Formal Wedding
When it comes to cocktail wedding attire, guests have more flexibility to express their style with color, patterns and hemlines. In fact, when the phrase cocktail attire was coined in the 1950s, it was meant to reflect a more relaxed look.
The general rule of thumb is that your chosen attire cannot be too short or too long, nor can it be skimpy or transparent. It is perfectly appropriate to wear a midi dress in a bright hue, such as salmon pink or cobalt blue. Jumpsuits are also ideal as they offer a touch of sophistication that you can dress up or down. For instance, when paired with flats and a denim jacket, the look is super casual. But swap them out for a pair of cute heels and statement earrings, and you’re ready for an evening event.
Opt for a printed skirt and silk blouse combo if you prefer separates. Choose muted colors, like blush or sage green, for a more understated look, and add one or two jewelry pieces to make it more formal.
Consider using the venue as inspiration when selecting your cocktail attire. If the wedding is outdoors, you can go all out with bold colors and prints, while an indoor event may require something more subdued.
Occasion 4: Casual Summer Wedding
At least with a black-tie wedding, you know what the bride and groom expect. Casual weddings leave you to your imagination but within certain boundaries. For starters, never wear jeans and a T-shirt to any wedding — no matter how casual it may be. Instead, go for something floaty like an off-the-shoulder dress or lightweight pantsuit.
Secondly, your undergarments must be way off the radar. No one should see your bra strap, and your underwear should be seamless. So, if your dress has a plunging or backless neckline, invest in some stick-on bras and lingerie that will do their job without drawing attention.
Finally, keep the colors vibrant and flirty. Anything from bold fuchsia to pretty pastels will look stunning in the summer sunshine. Accessorize with beaded sandals, a printed scarf, and a small clutch bag to finish the look.
Do’s and Don’ts for All Summer Wedding Occasions
Avoid white, ivory, light pink and light gray outfits. These colors are often reserved for the bride. You should only put them on if the invitation explicitly states that it is okay or if there’s a way to mix and match them with other colors without taking the attention away from the bride.
Another color to stay away from is black. It is considered to be too somber for a summer wedding. Besides, they absorb heat and can make you uncomfortable during the day. Experiment with burgundy, dark gray, teal or navy if you prefer darker colors.
You’ll want to accessorize with clutches, not bags. Bags are too bulky and take away from the elegance of your ensemble. Conversely, clutches are subtle and perfect for carrying a few essential items like lipstick, keys or tissues.
Also, don’t forget to check the forecast, especially if you’re attending an outdoor wedding. If the temperatures are forecast to be high, opt for lightweight, breathable fabrics such as linen or silk.
Finally, be aware of cultural sensitivities when attending weddings. For instance, if you are attending a Hindu ceremony, ensure your outfit covers your arms below elbow-length and your legs below knee-length. Or, if you’re attending a Muslim wedding, avoid wearing form-fitting clothes and opt for layered looks instead.
Emphasize Who You Are
Summer weddings are all about having fun and looking fabulous. With the right outfit, you’ll stand out from the crowd while still being respectful of the bride. Remember to keep it elegant, but don’t forget to add a unique twist. Accessorize with subtle pieces that fit your style, and above all else, ensure you remain comfortable and confident all day. Again, if you are unsure what to wear or fear your outfit might be inappropriate for the occasion, consult the marrying couple in advance.