When you go to a party bring a wallflower Styling Tips who talks to non-one and gets noticed by nobody takes the fun out of the party. Being the life of the party makes party going a worthwhile and enjoyable experience. You are not born to be the life of parties. You need to learn skills to become the sought after and welcome guest at parties.
Go to enjoy
Make a determined effort to enjoy yourself at the party. Don’t go with a plan to be a star or the center of attraction. When you go to enjoy the party, you will notice that all the guests are busy enjoying conversations or music or dancing. They are not trying hard to make others notice them nor are they magnets that attract all other guests. They are, like you there to enjoy themselves.
Dress Well
Dress well and appropriately to become the life of the party. The life of the party needs to be noticed by other guests not only because of their ability to converse but also because of the way they look. Jeans, a pretty top and a crossbody bag women wear to a casual party will get you noticed at the party. Fancier parties require fancier clothes. Make an effort to wear beautiful but appropriate clothes for a themed party.
Make the effort
You need to put ‘you’ before ‘I’ when you go to a party. You need to make the effort to be friendly. You need to strike up conversations with other guests to slowly become the life of the party. If you feel you will be stuck for something to say, prepare conversation topics before you reach the party venue. Introduce yourself to random groups of guests and strike up a conversation. Put the others first. Ask them questions about themselves and show an interest in what they have to say. These small talk methods will draw others to you like a magnet.
Stay beside the Host
Staying beside the host during the first half of the party makes sure you will get introduced to all the other guests. Once the introductions are completed, you can do the rounds yourself and get to know the others better and indulge in some friendly or interesting conversations. Staying beside the host at the beginning will help you circulate easily because the host will know most of the other guests and help you talk to the others easily.
Draw out Wallflowers
You will notice at the beginning or as the party goes on, there are many reluctant partygoers. If you make the effort to converse with them and draw them into the party, you will be noticed and appreciated by the other guests. Ask open-ended questions to the shy or reserved guest and find guests who share their interests. When you come across as a person who not only enjoys a party but makes efforts to make others enjoy the party too, other guests will enjoy having you at the party.
Music and Dancing
Practice dancing before you go to a party. Make friends with the DJ and ask them to play the music you like. Enter the dance floor before the others and start dancing. This is a sure way of becoming the life of the party. Most guests wait for someone to start the dancing and to be the star of the party, you should be that dancer who draws the others on to the dance floor to help them enjoy an enjoyable party with lots of dancing.
You are Unique
Always remember, you are unique. You should be yourself at the party. Trying to be someone else is tiring and can put the other guests off. They will be happy to know the unique and amazing person that you are not the person you are trying to be. The only party where being someone else adds to the fun is a costume party. At a costume party, you need to be the person that your costume represents. In parties other than a costume party, be yourself and be the unique life of the party.
Have a Feel-Good Attitude
Enter the party with an attitude that you are someone people will like and a person with interesting topics of conversation that other guests will enjoy. When you feel good about yourself, you will send positive vibes to other guests who will definitely start liking you and enjoy whatever you have to say. Confidence and a positive attitude even if you have to fake it will go a long way in helping you enjoy the party and making others enjoy your company.
You are not born to be the life of a party. You earn the privilege of becoming the life of a party by your effort to be friendly and interesting.